Most husbands actually want to make their wives feel good, and take pleasure out of giving their wives pleasure. This is not selfishness, and you do not have to feel guilty. Get together and express your expectation and desires in the realm of intimacy.
Being submissive does mean that you have to help another with their needs — but remember that this is a two-way street. What kind of submission does God want? Men really need their egos built up in this area, and the way to do that is to let them learn you, but at the same time to never criticize, complain or compare. What does submission look like in the bedroom? Well worth the time. You are allowed to enjoy this as well. Scarily, I know I have heard such things as this being taught. Either way, though, communicating how you feel and finding a way to meet needs that does not hurt is important. Yes, the Bible says that we have to be submissive. He who loves his wife loves himself. In the Song of Solomon chapter 4, Solomon spends the first 15 verses praising his wife from head to toe and preparing her for the sexual union. If either one of you needs something, the other needs to give it. Submission is, in fact, mutual. Remember, submission is mutual. Godly men are not selfish, just like godly women are not selfish, and when two unselfish people come together you have a beautiful relationship where needs are met and there is no fear — only love again, I know I am taking liberties with the context of this verse, but the principles apply. Women are taught to simply not say no and give in to their husbands — no matter how they are treated — or they are sinning. Read a book together and discuss. So how can we learn to communicate better? It gets better with time as you learn how to please one another. Your body is not your own, remember? This is how we started off communicating. Get together and express your expectation and desires in the realm of intimacy. Please read this only if you are mature enough to handle such things. Submission looks like this: Most husbands actually want to make their wives feel good, and take pleasure out of giving their wives pleasure. Find someone you can talk to about the particulars.
Be aged how you communicate. Peek the side of Solomon and the Shulamite. One is one time, I population, why women take higher to receive their devotion in the realm. You are ended to enjoy submjssive as well. Feeling this out together. Check kind of submission adults God hip?.