This will help you reconnect with each other on a whole new level. Working out gives you a sense of pride and accomplishment, says Berman. Tease yourself — and him. But mix it up a little: Maybe it's after you finish a long run — your blood is pumping and you're relaxed and exhilarated.
Maybe it's after you finish a long run — your blood is pumping and you're relaxed and exhilarated. You know, locked in? As a result, your libido takes a nosedive. It also gets you in the mood by reducing stress and boosting your self-esteem. Remove his ability to reason with mid-coital Kegels. Tease yourself — and him. Make the first move. Guys hold a lot of tension in their large muscle groups. You're not quite sure how — or when — it happened. That's because when a woman experiences chronic tension, her body produces higher levels of oxytocin, a chemical that cancels out the effects of the sex hormone testosterone. You used to have so much fun in bed, but suddenly your sex life just isn't what it used to be. Put your hand on top of his and guide him in how you want to be touched — including how much pressure to use. Then ask your partner what he loves about your body, and write it down. Turn chores into foreplay. Better yet, visit him at work. That's because when you tell yourself you can't have something, you want it even more. Instead of focusing on the end game, learn to enjoy the sensuality of sex. When you're relaxed and feeling good about yourself, sex will start to seem within the realm of possibility again. A recent study at the University of Virginia found that the leading predictor of a woman's marital happiness was the level of her husband's emotional engagement. At least once a week, stand in front of the mirror naked and focus on your favorite features — your toned arms, your firm butt, your gorgeous breasts. The secret to the best sex ever After a few years together, it's easy to get lazy in bed. Recharge your sexual batteries by doing things that let you break free from your hectic everyday life, says Berman. Pick a place you've never been and order a dish you've never had. Snap his sanity with butterfly kisses on his lower abdomen. Two-hand twist his shaft — and his reality.
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